Last Updated on 18/04/2023
Some of you may have experienced being "spanked" by your mother or teacher as a punishment for mischief or other misbehavior when you were young.
In fact, many spanking enthusiasts are said to have awakened to spanking as a result of the trauma of this "spanking. Perhaps you, too, have become a spanking maniac. You may have become a spanking maniac, too. This kind of spanking as physical punishment or discipline is called discipline-spanking, and has a long tradition, especially in Europe and the United States.
Spanking is the spanking of the buttocks with a hand or tool. Although used for discipline, spanking as a sexual preference has a long history and was popular in the West.
When watching porn, there are scenes in which the actor spanks the actress's buttocks while having sex in the doggy position, and it seems that a surprisingly large number of women feel spankings (this is just a skin sensation that the author has interviewed sex workers about). It is interesting that spanking "feels good" even though it is supposed to be painful.
Nevertheless, spanking is a hurdle for beginners. Spanking is divided into "hard spanking" and "soft spanking" depending on the amount of force applied, but many people may not know how to know how hard to hit.
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There are many different types of Spanking
Generally, spanking is referred to collectively as "spanking," but the term seems to be further subdivided by the tool used to smack.
- Hand (slap): Smacking
- Slippering: Slippering
- Whip: whipping
- Cane: caning
- and so on.
Spanking is popular among spanking enthusiasts and has long been practiced as a form of SM play. The common image of spanking is that the spanker is punished by the act of "hitting" and the spanker is dominated by the pain.
However, there are a few women who find being spanked "pleasant" and pleasurable.
Women who like to be spanked often say things like, "My butt tingles.
I feel the spankings make my buttocks tingle, and it feels so good.
The feeling of being spanked makes me happy and excited.
Depending on the "M-ness" of the woman being spanked, there are cases where a light spanking during sex (especially in the junior position) excites her. In general, the more M-oriented a woman is, the more she perceives spanking as a kind of shameful play and falls into an oppressed psychological state, saying "I'm an adult and I'm embarrassed to have my ass spanked.
In other words, spanking can spice up sex, depending on how it is done. Spanking is also effective as a way to determine the degree of a woman's sexuality.
What is a good pose for spanking?
When you hear the word "spanking," you generally think of a picture of a spanking victim lying on her back with her buttocks out, but in reality, that is not all there is to it. There are three typical styles of spanking
OTK
This is the so-called orthodox "butt pen-pen-pen" pose.
The spanking is performed by holding the woman prone on your lap while you are sitting on a chair or the like. This is ideal for spanking beginners because it can be done in a communicative way as a light punishment.
It is called "OTK" for Over the Knee in English.
Bent over
A spanking in which the woman bends over at the waist and sticks out her buttocks.
The spanking is performed in the so-called "standing back" style, with the woman's hands on a desk or prone on the floor.
A variant of the bent over spanking is a spanking performed completely on all fours, without the use of a desk or other object.
Standing
This is a spanking in which the woman is made to stand backward with her hands on the wall. This style is suitable when the woman is highly M and you want to train her in earnest.
Also, the act of leaving the woman standing in the corner of the room after spanking is called "corner time. This is often used to humiliate the partner or to encourage her to reflect on her actions.
Tools used for spanking
There are a variety of tools used in spanking.
For beginners who are not used to spanking, it is not recommended to use tools. Slapping by hand without using a tool is better suited for beginners because it is easier to control the force of the slap and to "go easy on the hand.
If you must use a tool, we recommend that you use a specialized spanking tool. The following are some of the tools that can be used for spanking.
Paddles
Paddles, sold as SM goods, are a popular spanking tool.
Paddles were originally used to paddle water in canoes, and are flat and spatula-like.
Paddles for SM are about the size of a handheld mop and are made of various materials such as leather, rubber, or silicone.
The large area to be tapped makes a loud "Pang! but it does not hurt too much in spite of the loud sound. For beginners, a paddle with a short handle is recommended, as it is less likely to be subjected to centrifugal force.
Rose whip
A whip whose striking part is broken up like a tassel. It makes a loud sound when it is struck, but because the tip is broken up, the force is distributed and the whip does not hurt as much. It is also a whip for beginners.
For beginners, we recommend a type with a short grip and tassel. This way, the centrifugal force is reduced and there is no need to worry about the pain becoming too strong.
Although we have introduced some typical spanking goods, you can also use everyday items as substitutes. For example, here are some examples.
Slippers
Slippers are an excellent substitute because they are easy to hold and similar in size and lightness to a "paddle.
In fact, spanking with slippers is called "slithering," and slippers are recognized as a popular spanking toy.
If you use slippers for spanking, be sure to get new ones.
Ties
Ties are another good substitute for spanking.
It is less shocking, even when a certain amount of force is applied, so it can be used to give a strong, bold slap. The advantage is that it is easier to control the pain a woman is subjected to.
It is also reminiscent of a boss, teacher, or other dominant male. It is an ideal item for giving women the fantasy of being scolded and arousing them.
Rice Spoon
If you don't have a spanking toy handy, a rice spoon can come in handy.
The rice scoop is a flat spatula like a paddle, making it a perfect spanking tool. Needless to say, however, the rule of thumb is to use a sanitary rice spoon. A scoop that has rice grains stuck to it is out of the question. If possible, a brand-new one, freshly bought, is preferable.
A rice scoop is also suitable for beginners because it has a short grip and is less sensitive to impact than a wooden spatula or iron. Lightweight plastic material is easier to use than wood, as it is easier to adjust for pain.
[Tapping tips] for beginner spanking.
Spanking is not just about slapping unnecessarily; you need to spank in the right way, even when playing in an SM brothel.
The following are some tips for spanking.
Slap with the whole palm of the hand
When spanking (smacking) with a slap, open your palms and slap with as large a motion as possible.
In doing so, try to use the whole arm rather than the wrist snap. With a little strength in the arm, slowly swing down and make a loud "smacking" sound with the palm of the hand. and slap the fleshest part of the buttocks with the whole palm of your hand so that a loud "slap! In spanking, this sound and vibration is an important pleasure device that gives the woman a sense of shame and pleasure.
This butt slap is not very painful. The purpose is to humiliate and mentally arouse the woman rather than to cause pain.
Shift the timing.
Beginners tend to pound and slap in a steady rhythm when spanking, but this approach is undesirable.
Think back. If you are bracing yourself for someone to slap you and the slap doesn't come fast enough, you are more nervous than usual.
Spanking is the same thing. By shifting the timing of the slap and slapping randomly, the other person gets excited and wonders when he or she will be slapped.
In addition to the timing of the smacks, you can make the play even more exciting by varying the force of the smacks as well. If you hit him hard and loudly with a "Pang! and then a loud, hard slap, followed by a weaker slap. ...... This repetition will increase a woman's arousal.
Add verbal abuse (advanced)
Once you get used to it, spanking during sex is recommended.
The easiest way to do this is to spank on all fours or standing back. The woman is facing backward, which is perfect for a surprise spanking. Another effective way to spank is to pretend to support the woman's hips in a cowgirl position.
In addition, if you are an advanced spanker, you can add mental as well as physical excitement by saying naughty words to her.
You're such a slut.
By saying such slurs while spanking, the feeling of being punished is further heightened. Don't be shy, but be bold and try your hand at verbal abuse.
Summary of Spanking
Are you interested in spanking, but afraid that if you tell a girl that you want to spank her, she will pull away...or so you think?
Spanking may indeed be a bit of a hurdle for beginners.
However, everything needs a trigger. If you are shy about getting a full-fledged spanking out of the blue, why not try it as a light punishment, just like a "spanking"?
It is not embarrassing if it is an extension of a playful game, and the woman may be willing to go along with it. Even if she refuses, you can pass it off as a joke and it won't do much damage.
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